The Journey

Maybe you were like me this past Monday night and got stuck in that horrible traffic jam caused by an accident between a motorcyclist and a truck. Sadly, the motorcyclist died. I was on my way to teach a yoga class and was stuck in that traffic for 3 hours. I never did make it to my class. Normally, I am a very punctual person and hate to be late for anything. When I am running severely late, I start to panic, get grouchy and get mad at the world for inconveniencing me. But that day was different. That day, I made conscious choice to think and react differently. Because even though I couldn't do yoga or teach yoga, I could be yoga.

I started to focus on my breath and that began to help me change my perspective on the situation. I knew I wasn't going to make it to class, so I called my friend to cancel it, and that took care of the stress of that. So, I'm still stuck and breathing and... listening to talk radio. That helped, but I could still do more. I know what took the edge of immediately, was thinking about the 2 main people involved in the accident. I knew one had died and I began to think about him and his family and friends. I began to think about how and when his family would be told and how their lives would change forever because of this one day. I began to pray for them and I began to pray for us because we're stuck here, all trying to get to our destinations.

We eventually would get to our destinations, but I questioned metaphorically why we wanted to get to them and get to them so quickly? It seems we all want to get some place, that we miss out on the actual journey along the way. It's the same with yoga. We all want the end result (that perfect, advanced pose) but we end up missing the point of it all, the hard work along the way. Transformation doesn't come when you reach the end. Transformation comes at every step along the way. I learned nothing when I got home that night safely to my husband. I learned everything sitting in my car, stuck on 75.

The joy is in the journey, my teacher said. I hope you remember that when you are hurrying through your life.

Susan